I wasn’t always a bitch…

Back in the day, I was ALWAYS nice. Waaaay too nice.  Always wanted to help out, it made me feel good, better about myself. So, as a result, people would constantly take advantage of me.   I’d give and give and give, and get nothing in return.

Well, THAT shit got tired REAL fast…

Much abuse and a few years later, I realized it was time to pull up the big girl panties and put my chin up and stand up for myself.  I was taking no s***, and I was taking prisoners, LOL! People started to treat me differently at first, backing off.  But, it ended up earning their respect instead of them crapping all over me.  And then I realized that I didn’t need them, since they weren’t there for me when I had needed them.  I was in control for a change, I was in the driver seat.  I took control of my life.  So then, of course, since I kicked all of them to the curb, I was dubbed a bitch. Yep, they were saying I was a bitch!  You know what I said?

I said F%$& ’em!!!

Believe me, life is far more fun this way, and nobody walks on me anymore,  as it should be for ANY human being that walks this Earth.

   This blog is not meant to be offensive. Well, maybe just a little, lol! But, it IS intended to teach girls and women (and guys as well) that abuse of any kind is absolutely unacceptable.  And, that when the day comes that you pull up your big girl panties and put your foot down, your ENTIRE life will change. Even if it takes for me, a total stranger, to help you. You never want to hear it from people you know, They’re usually the ones that are trying to keep you compliant. For me, it came from a woman that I thought was a royal bitch , and I will thank her for the rest of my life for teaching me!
   Being a bitch does not mean stepping all over people and acting like a jackass. It means being The Confident Woman, and not taking any crap from ANYBODY. Being the woman who takes care of herself. Taking pride in herself. That’s what being a bitch is all about. So, buckle up, buttercup, it’s going to be a crazy ride!
Accept no imitations…
Ms. B.  :0)