Back in the day, I was ALWAYS nice. Waaaay too nice. Always wanted to help out, made me feel good, better about myself. So, as a result, people would constantly take advantage of me. I’d give and give and give, and get nothing in return.
Well, THAT shit got tired REAL fast…
Much abuse and a few years later, I realized it was time to pull up the big girl panties and put my chin up and stand up for myself. I was taking no s***, and I was taking prisoners, LOL! People started to treat me differently at first, backing off. But, it ended up earning their respect instead of them crapping all over me. And then I didn’t realized that I didn’t need them, since they weren’t there for me when I had needed them. I was in control for a change, I was in the driver seat. I took control of my life. So then, of course, since I kicked all of them to the curb, I was dubbed a bitch. Yep, they were saying I was a bitch! You know what I said?
I said F%$& ’em!!!
Believe me, life is far more fun this way, and nobody walks on me anymore, as it should be for ANY human being that walks this Earth.