Back in the day, I was ALWAYS nice. Waaaay too nice.  Always wanted to help out, made me feel good, better about myself. So, as a result, people would constantly take advantage of me.   I’d give and give and give, and get nothing in return.

Well, THAT shit got tired REAL fast…

Much abuse and a few years later, I realized it was time to pull up the big girl panties and put my chin up and stand up for myself.  I was taking no s***, and I was taking prisoners, LOL! People started to treat me differently at first, backing off.  But, it ended up earning their respect instead of them crapping all over me.  And then I didn’t realized that I didn’t need them, since they weren’t there for me when I had needed them.  I was in control for a change, I was in the driver seat.  I took control of my life.  So then, of course, since I kicked all of them to the curb, I was dubbed a bitch. Yep, they were saying I was a bitch!  You know what I said?

I said F%$& ’em!!!

Believe me, life is far more fun this way, and nobody walks on me anymore,  as it should be for ANY human being that walks this Earth.